I am beginning to hold the view that our eating habits are much like the attitudes and opinions we hold, that is, we engage with what we like—not what, in the long run, is good for us. Perhaps the comparison even goes further: we find it next to impossible to change and give up what we enjoy and makes us feel happy like little children.
I chose the analogy of eating habits because it is so much a part of our life, almost like breathing and drinking water. When we celebrate a holiday or someone’s birthday, we haul out the tasty food. When our life is in transition many of us use food to remind us of better times. But it goes much deeper.
As my old pappy used to say, “It’s not what you eat, it is what is eating you.” And this is where I make the turn to the attitudes and opinions we hold dear that are very often not our own but that of our culture which could be very wrong; simply implanted into our heads at school or from the television. These attitudes and opinions are somewhat like junk food. They are everywhere but not of lasting benefit and help as we struggle through this life. What is even worse, people expect us to think and to hold attitudes and opinions like they do—we have to be a part of the consensus. There is sometimes a penalty if we don’t.
When we step into the spiritual world of Buddhism we have to dump our long held cultural attitudes and opinions that run counter to the fundamental teachings of the Buddha such as there is no transmigrant, no life after death and no such thing as karma. If we don’t give up these opinions we are not being open minded or really studying Buddhism. Maybe what we really want is to be able to have our cake and eat it, too. Said again, we don’t really want to shed our cultural attitudes and opinions which run counter to the teachings of the Buddha.
Over the years, while I have seen an interest in Buddhism such as Zen Buddhism and Tibetan Buddhism, I have also seen Buddhism get westernized insofar as we still can’t fully bring ourself to believing in nirvana, a transmigrant, a spiritual body that is deathless (dharmakaya), an afterlife, and karma. About the only thing we like about Buddhism, in general, is meditation. But Buddhism offers so much more. At its most elementary level it teaches us that there is life after death; that this is one of many existences we will have as we go up the learning curve to reach the telos of full awakening by which the universe becomes our play ground.